First off, though the tradition of "taking tea" originated from the British Empire, specifically England, it is practiced in the United Kingdom, Australia, New Zealand, Belgium, France, Switzerland, and of course in the United States.
In the U.K., there are two types of tea time -- afternoon tea (a.k.a. low tea) which is eaten between 3-5pm, and high tea (meat tea) which an early evening meal that is eaten between 5-6pm. Afternoon tea usually consists of finger sandwiches, primarily with cucumber, egg, ham or smoked salmon, scones with jam or clotted cream, and various cakes or pastries, all served in a three-tiered serving dish. High tea, however, would consist of cold meats, egg or fish, cakes, and sandwiches.
Many Britons today no longer have the time to take a break mid-day to enjoy a formal tea time. Instead, they take a simpler take on tea time that consists of tea and biscuits.
In other parts of England, as well as Australia and New Zealand, "tea" often refers to the main evening meal which is "dinner." In France and other French-speaking Europe, tea time is called "le gouter" which basically means 4pm afternoon snack. Le gouter is usually for kids coming home from school and consists of a baguette with butter and jam or other spreads, hot chocolate or juice, and never with tea or coffee. "Gouter" for adults would consist of pastries and alcohol, only served after 7pm.
As for the United States, tea time is regarded as a formal gathering where tea, finger sandwiches and little cakes are served on the best china. You can find afternoon tea served in high-end hotels and the much popular teahouses. Though most high tea are very formal, there are teahouses in the states that are much more informal and playful.
Now that you know what afternoon/high tea is, here are some some great tea houses to try out! (In Random Order)
They have hats for you to borrow and wear during your tea time experience! Plus, a vintage shop right beside the dining area.
2. Langham Huntington Hotel, Pasadena -- Chocolate Afternoon Tea
My ultimate favorite! Probably one of the most expensive afternoon teas out there at $59 per person, but it's soooo worth it! Let's just say, there's an all-you-can-eat dessert buffet (pictured below). Oh, and did I mention, everything (from sandwiches to tea) all contain chocolate!! YUM!
1. DarTeaLing Lounge -- San Francisco
2. Crown & Crumpet -- San Francisco
NOW GO GET YOUR TEA ON!! :)
p.s. don't be afraid to bring your man along...he's gonna enjoy more than he will admit. ;]